Wednesday, May 11, 2011 - 14:40

Eight years ago, Celeste and Joe Bancheri had a longing to start activities that would serve their community. Because they had a young grandchild, they decided to offer a class for the spiritual education of children at their local library. Working with their grandchild, they invited children to the class. Soon they found that the loving friendships they built with the children and parents would allow them to move the class to their home. Conversations with parents and friends led to a need to start a gathering that would provide spiritual sustenance to adults in the community, so they started a devotional gathering.

Many started coming to the devotional gathering from as far away as an hour’s drive. They started study circlesOne of the core activities. A delivery system for training institute courses, consisting of small groups of people, regardless of their ideas or beliefs, meeting on a regular basis in a locality with a trained tutor or facilitator. Materials developed by the Ruhi Institute are studied and active participation in a learning process is engendered, supplemented by artistic, service and social activities. with these friends and began to slowly support anyone who was able and willing to start activities in their own community. The distance proved to be challenging for their community building efforts. Nevertheless, they persisted.

Through their children’s class they met the Muller-Maharaj family. Susanne called Celeste about the children’s class for her children and her whole family was invited to attend a devotional gathering. In time, their entire family became involved in all the activities at the Bancheri home and they soon became strong collaborators with them in these activities. They joined a study circle and saw their capacity to serve grow. Drawing on what they were learning in these activities, Susanne and Celeste also started to offer a weekly meditation group for people in the community.

In time they started to connect with more and more people in their neighbourhood and found that it was easier to nurture the development of these community building activities in a small geographic setting. So Susanne and Annand decided to move to Joe and Celeste’s neighbourhood in order to intensify their efforts.

Now there are nearly ten families from the neighbourhood engaged in all the activities: Three children’s classes, three study circles, one devotional gathering and one junior youth group. Now Susanne teaches her own children’s class. Anand is helping tutorA facilitator of a study circle. a study circle, and together with the Bancheri’s they are working with all of their new friends to grow the activities because they are constantly finding families who want to participate.

We had the joy of visiting their neighbourhood to interview them and some of their friends to see how these activities are evolving. Our first video from this neighbourhood is of Celeste and Susanne talking about these activities and the impact it has had on their families and the nature of the relationships they have with their neighbours. This video will be posted in few days.

Monday, December 6, 2010 - 14:51

One of the elements of a children’s class that helps develop the spiritual faculties of children are stories. Among the many spiritual faculties that lessons try to develop are; imagination, intuition, perception and memory, along with virtues that have been deposited into the reality of the soul like love, generosity, justice and kindness. Many of the lessons include a story about the life of ‘Abdu’l-Baha.

‘Abdu’l-Bahawas Baha’u’llah’s son and was designated by Him as the perfect exemplar of the Baha’i teachings. Since the age of nine he had been imprisoned with his family, suffered great loss and deprivation and was only freed from prison at the age of 64. He had dedicated all of his life to promoting the oneness of humanity and because of His dynamic example and his sacrificial labors he was able to transform situations of deprivation and loss into joy and injustice into justice. Despite all of what he suffered he led an exemplary life and did all he could to improve both the material and spiritual conditions of the people of his city and through hundreds of letters he inspired people from both the east and the west to do the same. All this, He was able to do under conditions of imprisonment and persecution. The stories of his life give insight into what it means to be a human being living in a complex world and the constellation of qualities one needs to begin to build a just society. The stories are dynamic examples that begin to help children imagine a better world and in time learn to become capable of working towards it. Having these stories imprinted in their memory helps the children remember the heights of excellence of character towards which they can strive and the way in which these qualities can improve their environment.

Often from the first lesson in the class the children begin to love ‘Abdu’l-Baha and are animated by his example. They are amazed that he is real and express sadness when they find out that he no longer lives. Here is an example of the impact of one of the stories of ‘Abdu’l-Baha’ with a story shared by a children’s class teacher:

Our children's class learned about justice today.

Afterwards, we played a game of soccer. We decided to stop when the game was a tie. One of the children remarked, “This is the most just game I've ever played!”
“Why do you say that?” I asked.
“Because no one cheated, and everybody won.”
These qualities weren’t only understood by the children, but were manifested in their behavior. That same day, someone was kicking a tree. A child approached him and said, “don't kick that tree!”
“Why,” he asked.
“That tree is like Abdu'l-Baha. While you’re kicking it, it’s still giving you shade.”

After our lesson on the theme of service, the children painted beautiful pictures and were asked to give them to individuals living at a seniors residence. The children were so pleased with their pictures, however, that they didn’t want to give them up. After some encouragement, they did give them to the seniors, who were delighted. Afterwards, in the parking lot, even before I could tell them what a good job they did, a thirteen-year old youth helping with the project piped in and said:
“What we just did was like what Lua Getsinger did when she cared for that sick man on behalf of Abdu'l-Baha.”
The children expressed their amazement at having done something so profound. One six year old had a suggestion, though.
“We didn't make enough pictures, there was a gentleman who was crying because he didn't get a picture.”
She had taken it upon herself to talk to one of the nurses and promised that next time, they would each make two paintings. I explained to her that this man wasn't crying because he didn't get a picture. He was crying because he was happy to see them, and because he had felt their love.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010 - 12:54

Toronto, Ontario, 25 October 2010 (CBNS) – Two years ago, a few friends started a class on a straw mat in a park. The children who joined didn’t come to study typical subjects like math or science. Instead, they started learning how to think about spiritual principles like love, generosity and patience and apply them to their daily lives.

Around the world, Baha’is and their friends are teaching classes like these, open to children of all backgrounds. The classes consist of groups of friends who often meet in parks like the one at St. James Town’s, in each other’s homes, or in community centres. The teachers of this class have changed occasionally, and some kids move away or join swimming lessons, but recently 13 children were participating. The teachers hope to increase that number.

Songs, colouring and cooperative games complement quotations and stories that help the children understand the application of the concepts they are exploring. Quotations from the Baha’i writings illustrate qualities like justice, truthfulness and love. Stories draw on examples from the life of ‘Abdu’l-Baha, the son and appointed successor of Baha’u’llah, who Baha’is consider to have perfectly embodied the teachings of their faith.

Hearing these stories helps the children envision what those qualities would look like in their own lives. Vahid, one of the teachers, said one of the moments he remembers best happened while walking two children home after class. One was upset at someone, so the other girl reminded her of ‘Abdu’l-Baha and encouraged her to forgive and forget like he would do.

The experiences in the class have inspired the children to take on several acts of service in the St. James Town community. Last July, in just under two hours they raised $110 towards relief efforts in Haiti and the charity Covenant House from a bake sale in front of the neighbourhood grocery store. Currently, they are planning a food drive. For the past two summers, they have held a picnic for parents to make presentations and sing some of the songs they are learning.

In April 2010, another group, this one with adults, started with the goal of bringing together diverse community members on equal footing to explore the application of the Baha’i teachings to their lives and the betterment of the community as a whole. The sequence of courses they are using, which is also implemented worldwide, functions as a preparation for acts of service like the children’s class. For more information on this sequence of courses, please visit The Ruhi InstituteA Baha’i training institute in Colombia. Its program of systematic and sustained education, particularly courses delivered through study circles, have been widely adopted by Baha’i Communities throughout the world. website (http://ruhi.org/).

Vahid, who serves as a facilitator for the group, said that his experience with the children’s classes gave him practical insights to share with the other participants. One of the members of the group now wants to serve by helping with the class. Together, these activities in the neighbourhood are driving a community building process that promotes a way of thinking, studying, and acting in which all people consider themselves as treading a common path of service.

Friday, October 1, 2010 - 20:00

On Monday, we visited a neighbourhood children’s class in Toronto. Crystal and Samin -who are from British Columbia- started the class two years ago when they came to Toronto to study. The class is with children in their apartment building. Over time they have gotten to know and love the children and their families and now feel very connected to the community.

This was evident in their interaction with the participants and the few parents I have met (though everyone was shy to go on camera). For example Anwar, who is Nahid’s dad, sat quietly through the whole class supporting her and encouraging her teachers.

It was nice to hear how they have grown as teachers. Having both started with little experience, they talked about how the structure of the lessons in Baha’i children’s classes has not only helped the children develop, but has also helped them grow spiritually and gain confidence as teachers over time.

At first, the children wanted to talk to the camera, but once Crystal asked them to concentrate on the class and not on the camera they listened.

Michael, who also lives in the building was there helping with the class. He is a talented musician and played songs and sang with the kids and told this week’s story.

The class was full of energy, laughter and joy, especially when they were singing songs. There was a lot of dancing and at the end of the song everyone except the teachers ended up in a pile on the ground! There was also periods of serious reflection in the class. For example, when Michael told the story, the children were fully attentive and afterward talked about how the man in the story was being insincere with his neighbour. When Crystal explained what sincerity was, and asked the children to think about what it would mean to be sincere when we do something wrong and say we are sorry, Diva offered that we would try not to do it again.
We will be working on editing this footage next week and hope to have it up on the site very soon.

Please send us your thoughts about this story or feel free to send us your stories about children's classesOne of the core activities. The provision of education for children, whether Baha’i or not, in a locality, often focusing on the development of essential capacities and a strong moral framework that assists children to achieve excellence in material, intellectual, and spiritual aspects of life. .

Saturday, July 31, 2010 - 20:00

Transforming Neighbourhoods is under construction. Our website has been redesigned and slowly you will begin to see new features. We are hoping to use this blog to inform you of these changes.
Since we live in such a vast country, there are many places where we can’t go, so we thought that maybe we could tell some of those stories here on this blog. This will also be a place where we will inform you of upcoming videos.

Occasionally we may also share with you inspiring quotes, letters, photos and experiences of participants engaged in these activities. Let us know what you think about this blog by writing to externalaffairs@cdnbnc.org